Hand to my heart, someone posted this to an etiquette board:
I am a nice Jewish girl. Well, not so sure about the nice part. Anyway……my partner is not Jewish, and her family is quite religious. Of course I don’t celebrate Christmas, but they don’t seem to understand this and buy me Xmas gifts, which invariably I don’t want or need. Would it be rude to tell them not to buy me gifts, but instead donate to a charity in my/our name (s)?
Yes, you dumbass, it would be rude.
Honestly, when the over-the-internet dopeslap is invented, I’m downloading it immediately.